Your bum, is essentially full of nerve endings; Just begging to be arouse, stimulate and tease, even if you don’t know it!
The mistake many make is going straight in at the deep end; too hard and too rough, that’s not to say you will be begging for hard and rough after a warm up, but you need to get there first, so as your build up the endorphin rush, the exquisite mix of pain and pleasure will make you beg Mistress of more and more….harder and harder.
It is a skill that takes years to hone to perfection….just that right touch, at the right time and in the right moment, only something a Mistress truly knows how to apply and take you to places that you never knew existed; one seconds pain is the next moments ecstasy.
Many sessions will begin with light smacks on your buttocks to warm the skin and the buttocks so they become rosy and pink and ready for Mistress to take things up a notch as the spanking becomes harder, mixed with light caressing, just to make things even more intense.
Many slaves make the mistake, especially when knew to use the safe word even at this stage….but beware, gratuitous use of the safe word my render it ‘unsafe’ if you start to abuse the word. (Don’t cry wolf before the wolf really arrived lol)
Mistress will know, particularly if you are new or haven’t been spanked before if this is as far as you go in the early sessions, but once you’ve been spanked by the expert hand of a Mistress, there will be no going back and a world of corporal punishment will await you.
When you step beyond this stage, it is often a paddle or flogger will appear, where Mistress will often look for the ‘sweet spot’, which is found at lower area of the bum (see diagram!!). For many the focus on this area will often result in orgasm. Don’t be under any illusion, Mistress will be taking pleasure in this as much as you are.
If you are ready and only Mistress will know, the cane may make an appearance as things really hot up as your cheeks by now have turned a bright red and as the cane raises the pain/pleasure threshold, you begin to see those beautiful welts on your tender rose red cheeks, not knowing if you really want Mistress to keep going or to stop.
Mistress Nikky loves to spank a willing bottom and loves even more taking beginners from their very first spank to a real pleasure zone.